Perhaps its really one of those LOVE HATE relationships. You know the kind. She created the perfect male. She gave him all the attributes and characteristics that she desired in a man. J.K. Rowling is Doctor Frankenstein and Harry is the creation of the Doctor. Just like then, the whole Harry Potter thing has gotten out of hand and grown beyond what she ever imagined. Its gotten out of control and the only way for her to stop it now...is to kill her creation. She must kill Harry Potter to get some more control back into her own life. She loves him but she knows that he's too good for her.

Rowlings philosophy is, if you love something use it and if it doesnt do what you want, kill it with a stick!